“I am weirdly grateful as a result of it made me face the details,” the astrologist stated of the incident. “It was simply a variety of wake-up calls that wanted to occur, however it wasn’t straightforward within the second.”
Ally Lewber is opening up in regards to the harrowing night time that led to her ex James Kennedy’s misdemeanor home violence arrest.
Two months after calling it quits with the Vanderpump Guidelines DJ after three years collectively, the astrologer is sharing extra about what allegedly went down that night time. Lewber was at Kathy Hilton’s vacation social gathering and was busy studying The Actual Housewives of Beverly Hills star’s start chart earlier than rejoining Kennedy.
“Once I was completed working and got here out to the social gathering, that is when it was like, ‘Oh, his entire demeanor modified,'” Lewber recalled in an interview with PEOPLE revealed Tuesday. “I may type of inform, like, ‘Have you ever been ingesting?'”
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Though Lewber stated she was hesitant to accuse Kennedy, who’s been open about his battle with alcohol habit, of breaking his sobriety, issues rapidly escalated as soon as they bought into an Uber to move house.
“I used to be like, ‘You are clearly drunk,'” the StarStruck podcast host recalled telling him. “It is fairly straightforward to identify.”
However she stated Kennedy wasn’t having it and allegedly gaslit her, telling her, “I am not drunk, you are drunk.”
Tensions between the pair ran excessive, and the combating continued as soon as they arrived at their vacation spot.
“We have been simply combating outdoors,” Lewber, who stated her pal Jack was additionally in attendance, added, noting that it was at that time the police confirmed up. She clarified, although, that she would not know who known as them.
“They assessed the scenario, and I used to be not harm bodily,” she defined. “Emotionally, sure. That is type of how that night time performed out, sadly.”
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Whereas Lewber maintains she was not bodily assaulted, a 3rd social gathering who witnessed the incident claimed {that a} man “lifted” his girlfriend and “threw her to the bottom,” in line with docs obtained by TMZ. Prosecutors finally determined to not press fees towards James.
The aftermath of the incident served as a “wakeup name” for Lewber.
“I by no means was bodily harm and I by no means felt unsafe,” she stated. “It was extra simply strolling on eggshells and feeling anxious about, when is his subsequent blow-up going to be?”
With Kennedy allegedly ingesting behind her again, Lewber ultimately sought remedy and leaned on her household and mates for help as she made the choice to go away him for good.
As robust because it was, the previous actuality star says the entire expertise gave her the readability she wanted.
“I am weirdly grateful as a result of it made me face the details,” she admitted. “It was simply a variety of wake-up calls that wanted to occur, however it wasn’t straightforward within the second.”
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Kennedy, for his half, has been vocal about his dedication to private progress following the arrest.
In December, he took to his Instagram Tales to share his deal with sobriety and self-improvement, writing, “I’m dedicated to creating significant modifications in my life… Navigating difficult moments just isn’t straightforward, however I’m decided to be taught, develop, and transfer ahead with the unbelievable help system round me.” In January, he stated he celebrated 48 days of sobriety.
As for Ally, she’s transferring ahead and feeling like herself once more.
“I did not even understand this actually till I used to be out of the home for some time, however simply how my nervous system simply feels regular once more,” Lewber stated. “Monitoring somebody’s conduct just isn’t wholesome.”
