AGAINST ME! Vocalist LAURA JANE GRACE Accused of Spousal Abuse

Towards Me! frontwoman Laura Jane Grace is the topic of some unsettling accusations from her spouse – who can also be her co-writer on her model new solo album – Paris Campbell Grace.

The state of affairs is presently unfolding, and was first reported on by Lambgoat, earlier because the Towards Me! frontwoman simply dropped a solo album yesterday regardless of allegations that stemmed from her spouse, accusing her of spousal abuse.

Paris Campbell Grace took to Instagram and Threads to publically plead her spouse, Laura Jane, to go away the home because of quite a few, unresolved makes an attempt to have Laura Jane search medical {and professional} assist. There isn’t any indication as to what for.

The huge thread detailing a number of the abuse was attributable to Laura Campbell Grace‘s personal Thread that she felt “unsafe.”

Paris quoted Laura Jane‘s “unsafe” Thread with the next:

“That is one other instance this week of my spouse utilizing her large platform to aim to harm me. I’m presently locked in my workplace with all my belongings, and truly actually scared. I do not know what to do right here, and I’ve no person to show to. She has hundreds of people that love her, and it is a fantastic inequality of energy. She’s been yelling at me since we wakened, I’ve remained calm (though admit I’ve cried a bunch after) and begged her to please be form to me and attempt to have a great day.”

From there, Paris continued to explain the present state of her residence on the time of the Threads being posted:

“We’re a day away from a significant album launch. Our first collaboration collectively. However I’m not being handled with kindness. Every little thing from my previous of getting to show to SW, to my alarm going off an excessive amount of has been setting Laura Jane to a spot of sheer irrational rage in direction of me day by day. I’m making an attempt my finest right here, however I FEEL unsafe. Laura Jane is completely secure, upstairs, tearing the home aside as I kind this.”
“I’m the one unsafe on this state of affairs, I’m publicly asking my spouse to please cease this and go away the house.”
“What is occurring to me may be very actual. I like my spouse dearly, however I consider she wants severe assist. I’ve numerous occasions begged for us to go to counseling, to which she typically blows up at me over even the suggestion. On the few occasions she’s midway agreed, it leads nowhere. I’ve no choices than to publicly state what’s occurring to me as a result of I haven’t got a private assist community, everybody in my life is there for/due to my spouse. I really feel very alone…”

After describing what was presently occurring, Paris then recounted years value of accusations, stemming from obsessive behaviour to outright emotional abuse:

“Laura Jane met me after I was simply on my toes from shedding all the pieces I owned to a hearth. I used to be a struggling artist/comedian/no matter who had a considerable social following, however was secretly making ends meet doing SW (and OF) for a short time earlier than we met. This led to assault and being trafficked. I bought out, however endured loads of trauma. Once I met my spouse, one of many first issues I confided in her have been my experiences. She made me really feel so secure, and informed me I might by no means really feel judged by her.”
“My spouse discovered me on social media, I requested her out, inside two months we went full pressure collectively right into a life and marriage. She invited me into these artistic initiatives, and I turned a full time member of her touring bands and commenced recording and writing along with her. This was by no means the unique plan, however I used to be thrilled to be discovering my method again to music in a pure method with somebody I like. It was all natural, and delightful…”
“Quickly, issues shifted. Increasingly, my spouse seemingly began to change into resentful in direction of me for a number of issues, however primarily my quick lived expertise as a SWer. My spouse has discovered a method to tie it into all the pieces. This threw me… HARD. I could not perceive, and nonetheless do not perceive, why immediately for the final OVER A YEAR I discover myself day by day getting my trauma thrown in my face…”
“Every little thing from her scouring the web for any stays she will discover of my deleted OF leaks, or telling me she spends time watching therapeutic massage parlor porn out of “concern” she is going to see me in one of many movies, or her saying her telling me her findings of movies of me I’ve defined are non-consensual of their distribution—to throw in my face moments earlier than sound verify on a present day, I COULD GO ON FOREVER…”

“I really feel used. Which is loopy, as a result of that is what my spouse tells me day by day, that I am an “asshole narcissist,” that I am “in cahoots with” this individual or that to execute a “secret plan” by which I take all her cash, it is limitless. Our relationship has change into a revolving door of my spouse yelling at me whereas I cry, then hours later coming round with solely the phrases…”
“”wanna fuck?” And THAT is the one tenderness I’m proven. I really feel like an object. Then each evening, I get on stage and I sing and check out has exhausting as I can to do a great job, typically whereas she throws demise stares at me throughout phrases like “as if it have been an obligation” throughout Black Me Out, or typically she will not have a look at me in any respect to make me really feel disconnected…”
“I sound loopy saying these items as a result of IT IS loopy, however it is usually the fucking reality. I’m not a nasty individual, I like love love this girl, however I do not deserve any of this shit!! I really feel invisible, I really feel like no person will consider me, and I do know it isn’t proper. I really feel like I am dwelling in a dystopian nightmare, everybody day by day telling me how a lot this girl loves me…”
“whereas on the day by day she tells me she hates me, needs me gone, but when I attempt to go away that is a problem too!! I’m not okay!!!!!”

Then, after the state of affairs intensified, Paris posted screenshots of her messages with Laura Jane, asking her to go away the home so Paris might have time along with her personal daughter. Laura Jane stated she felt “unsafe” leaving her belongings alone with Paris, to which Paris then named off issues that they might to ease that concern, whereas additionally gently suggesting Laura Jane search skilled assist. Paris explains within the captions of the screenshots that, “This has been my solely communication with my spouse since yesterday morning except for logistical questions communicated by means of others, or her arguing at me from the 2nd flooring. I’m as soon as once more, as somebody who has been repeatedly abused on this marriage, asking my spouse to go away the house and permit me to have a secure house to spend time with my baby.”

The one response that Laura has to supply with regard to Paris‘ allegations assault her credibility as a mom:

“Within the 12 months and a half I’ve been with you I feel you may have perhaps had your child a complete of three months? And if you do have them you throw them in daycare from 8-5PM day by day whilst you smoke weed and have a look at TikTok. Final time I left and filed for divorce you went and stayed at a elaborate air b&b in Indiana. I’ve a child that lives on this home too. You allow”

And whereas the state of affairs is continuous to unfold and develop on social media, please let this be a lesson to all the time report abusive or hold observe of suspicious behaviour.