“A very long time in the past, you talked about you’d by no means shaved or waxed your bikini line,” wrote a reader named Emma. “May you elaborate on why? I’ve all the time questioned!” Nicely, I’m glad to share…
My reply is basically easy: I’ve delicate pores and skin, and I’m a wuss, haha. I don’t wish to go right into a waxing place and get my hair ripped out; it sounds so painful, omg. Plus, I really feel tremendous having hair there, and my feeling is that if I’m going to mattress with somebody, I need us each to really feel so excited and heat and glad and shut that we’re tremendous with regardless of the precise hair state of affairs is on both of our our bodies. One caveat: I don’t have plenty of hair, and I believe my reply could be completely different if I had extra rising outdoors my swimsuit space.
Additionally, after I was getting again onto the relationship scene, my sister really helpful this bikini trimmer. I attempted it and appreciated it, and now I take advantage of it each time I’m within the temper — in all probability each couple months — to have much less hair, without having to totally shave or wax. It’s fully painless and sort of enjoyable to mess around with.
Ideas? So curious to listen to what you do and the way you’re feeling about it! Each physique is completely different, and folks have all types of preferences and experiences. As with all physique/intercourse/parenting/relationships/life questions, “Good for her, not for me.” xoxo
P.S. Twist: I just like the phrase “moist”, and did you’ve intercourse in your marriage ceremony night time? Additionally, 5 methods to speak to children about consent, and why I usually discuss durations with my sons.
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